{"id":4711,"date":"2024-01-12T19:42:22","date_gmt":"2024-01-12T19:42:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/annikawesth.se\/?p=4711"},"modified":"2024-01-13T16:05:11","modified_gmt":"2024-01-13T16:05:11","slug":"fran-eget-skryt-luktar-illa-till-selfies-varje-dag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/annikawesth.se\/?p=4711","title":{"rendered":"En g\u00e5ng luktade eget skryt illa."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

N\u00e4r jag vara barn fick vi h\u00f6ra att \u201deget skryt lukar illa\u201d, om man ber\u00f6mde sig sj\u00e4lv p\u00e5 n\u00e5got s\u00e4tt. Jag var under n\u00e5gra \u00e5r duktig i idrott, vilket var v\u00e4ldigt roligt. Men att sj\u00e4lv ber\u00e4tta om sina framg\u00e5ngar, det h\u00e4nde aldrig. Absolut inte. Tv\u00e4rtom skulle det tonas ned. Det var allts\u00e5 v\u00e4ldigt fult att ber\u00e4tta om sina egna segrar och of\u00f6rblommerat framst\u00e4lla sig sj\u00e4lv som duktig. S\u00e4rskilt i det innersta Norrland d\u00e4r jag v\u00e4xte upp. Det har suttit i sedan dess. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Den h\u00e4r fostran st\u00e5r i skarp kontrast till hur man uppmuntras agera idag. Du ska b\u00e5de visa upp dig och delge andra dina framg\u00e5ngar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men att inte f\u00e5 ber\u00e4tta om n\u00e5got man \u00e4r stolt och glad \u00f6ver, \u00e4r ganska osunt. F\u00f6r att bryta min barndoms m\u00f6nster, fostrade vi v\u00e5ra barn i att vara mera positiva till sig sj\u00e4lva. Det \u00e4r bra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Selfien som fenomen gjorde sitt intr\u00e4de tillsammans med sociala medier. Dessf\u00f6rinnan var det helt ot\u00e4nkbart att fota sig sj\u00e4lv. Min f\u00f6rsta profilbild p\u00e5 Facebook var j\u00e4ttesv\u00e5r att l\u00e4gga ut. Oj vad det tog emot.  Att \u00e5ka runt och s\u00e4tta upp stora affischer p\u00e5 sig sj\u00e4lv inf\u00f6r ett val, vara \u00e4nnu v\u00e4rre \u2013 \u00e4ven om det \u00e4r m\u00e5nga fler som ser dig online \u00e4n som k\u00f6r f\u00f6rbi din valaffisch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e5ngsamt har det h\u00e4r \u00e4ndrat sig f\u00f6r oss som \u00e4r f\u00f6dda p\u00e5 70-talet. \u00d6vning ger f\u00e4rdighet, som det heter. Men snarare handlar det om tillv\u00e4njning. Bit f\u00f6r bit n\u00f6ts det inpr\u00e4ntade motst\u00e5ndet ner mot att visa upp sig. Detsamma g\u00e4ller f\u00f6r hur man ber\u00e4ttar om sig sj\u00e4lv och sina framg\u00e5ngar. \u201dSyns du inte, finns du inte\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Idag sv\u00e4mmar fl\u00f6dena \u00f6ver av selfies. En del har aldrig n\u00e5got annat motiv till sina texter \u00e4n en bild av sig sj\u00e4lv. Inte ens i olika situationer som h\u00f6r till texten, utan bara snarlika bilder av sig sj\u00e4lv. Po\u00e4ngen \u00e4r f\u00f6rmodligen att inpr\u00e4nta i alla en medvetenhet om att du finns. Ibland \u00f6mmar mitt hj\u00e4rta och jag t\u00e4nker att jag vill s\u00e4ga: Du \u00e4r j\u00e4ttefin och duktig! Det t\u00f6rs jag dock aldrig skriva, eftersom det kanske skulle uppfattas som ironiskt. Jag \u00e4r dock aldrig ironisk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men finns det inte n\u00e5got sunt i att t\u00e4nka att jag sj\u00e4lv inte \u00e4r s\u00e5 intressant i tid och otid? B\u00e4st \u00e4r v\u00e4l en balans. Vi f\u00e5r se om vi hittar den snart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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N\u00e4r jag vara barn fick vi h\u00f6ra att \u201deget skryt lukar illa\u201d, om man ber\u00f6mde sig sj\u00e4lv p\u00e5 n\u00e5got s\u00e4tt. Jag var under n\u00e5gra \u00e5r duktig i idrott, vilket var v\u00e4ldigt roligt. Men att sj\u00e4lv ber\u00e4tta om sina framg\u00e5ngar, det h\u00e4nde aldrig. Absolut inte. Tv\u00e4rtom skulle det tonas ned. Det var allts\u00e5 v\u00e4ldigt fult att … <\/p>\n

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