{"id":4658,"date":"2023-11-26T09:20:34","date_gmt":"2023-11-26T09:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/annikawesth.se\/?p=4658"},"modified":"2023-11-26T19:05:39","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T19:05:39","slug":"ar-du-en-san-som-svarar-eller-en-san-som-inte-svarar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/annikawesth.se\/?p=4658","title":{"rendered":"\u00c4r du en s\u00e5n som svarar eller en s\u00e5n som inte svarar?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Det g\u00e5r att dela in m\u00e4nniskor i tv\u00e5 undergrupper: de som svarar och de som inte svarar. Generellt sett \u00e4r det de \u00e4ldre som alltid  svarar och de yngre mera s\u00e4llan. Men undantag finns s\u00e5klart. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00e4r det handlar om att svara i telefonen, svarar de \u00e4ldre alltid. Det h\u00f6r ihop med den gamla telefontiden. Att man svarar n\u00e4r det ringer, helt enkelt. Idag ser du vem som ringer p\u00e5 din mobil och du kan ringar upp senare, skicka meddelanden o s v. Oftast har du inte tid att svara exakt n\u00e4r det ringer. Men jag t\u00e4nker inte p\u00e5 telefonsamtal i f\u00f6rsta hand. Jag t\u00e4nker p\u00e5 \u00f6vriga meddelanden, som mejl eller message och kommentarer i sociala medier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Att inte svara \u00e4r en handling av olika karakt\u00e4r. Det kan vara nonchalans eller slarv. Eller att man inte bryr sig alls att svara \u2013 f\u00f6rst\u00e5r inte fr\u00e5gan, kanske. Men inte s\u00e4llan \u00e4r det en maktdemonstration. Att man inte t\u00e4nker l\u00e4gga energi p\u00e5 att kreta ner ett par ord till just den h\u00e4r personen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ghosting \u00e4r idag ett etablerat begrepp. Jag har h\u00f6rt att det b\u00f6rjade inom dating-branschen. Att n\u00e4r den ena inte var intresserad av att tr\u00e4ffa den andre igen, s\u00e5 svarade hen helt enkelt inte p\u00e5 n\u00e4sta prop\u00e5. Att hen p\u00e5 s\u00e5 vis skulle \u201dget the message\u201d &#8211; \u00e5tminstone efter en tid. D\u00e4refter har fenomenet, eller beteendet, spridit sig till andra omr\u00e5den, som till arbetslivet. Att efter en anst\u00e4llningsintervju inte f\u00e5 n\u00e5got svar. Eller inom ett f\u00f6retag finna sig i att inte f\u00e5 svar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men nu har det \u00e4ven blivit vanligt i \u00f6vriga kontakter. Att man kan v\u00e4lja att inte svara. Det finns \u00e4ven &#8220;halvvarianter&#8221;, likt ett roligt svar jag fick en g\u00e5ng som l\u00f6d: \u201dsom du f\u00f6rst\u00e5r s\u00e5 \u00e4r jag v\u00e4ldigt upptagen\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Den grupp som svarar d\u00e5? Jo, de som ing\u00e5r i den gruppen tillh\u00f6r de trevliga. Att svara, \u00e4ven om svaret inte \u00e4r det personen man svarar vill h\u00f6ra, eller att svara mycket kort. Dock ett svar. En del beh\u00f6ver l\u00e4ra sig att det \u00e4r okej att leverera ett svar som \u00e4r trist nekande. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Till vilken grupp s\u00e4llar du dig? Vilket val har du gjort? 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